When just married people (men only) were contacted in small group to share their first experience of sex, surprisingly mixed responses were observed. It is worth mentioning here how far these people were willing to share their personal experiences of sex in their prime life.
A few were not ready to share, whereas some reported that it was unexpected and unprepared. Rather they were dazed to face this query. Some were really confused what to share and what not to share. A few opined that it left a bad taste in the person’s mouth. There was no resolution of the experience throughout life. Expressed feelings of shame--reinforced by the adults. Many were really reluctant to share their experiences. A few felt feelings of guilt—strangely, what they did.
So, not ready, unexpected, feelings of shame, guilt feeling and bad experience drove them from sharing the personal-so personal to them. Is it alright? Readers opinion are worth welcome.
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